Monday, August 28, 2006

are all relationships two sided? (or supposed to be??)

Had an interesting coversation today and thought to myself, while having it...this is such an interesting topic....

some of the thoughts I had were:

1) If one party is doing stuff for the relationship and isn't communicating correctly what their expectations are, how is the other party/person (not to be confused with a festivity!!) supposed to get it??

2) Is there such thing as "the perfect person" for you (or me)?? Please say, "YES!!"

3) If Yes, then how do you know when it's them?

4) If your significant other or partner tells you that they are going to start trying to do something that you really think you need them to do....like perhaps give you a reminder of how important you are to them (or something like this), then please try to be sure you say, "Thank You" and acknowledge them for trying....

I mean it's very difficult to have relationsips, period.

So when it comes to your next interraction, with someone you work with, someone you share your home with, or someone you're married to, please try to be sure your communication is clear, and as concise as possible, so the other person or party (festivity now, maybe?), gets what you are trying to communicate.

Communication is not difficult. Just clear your head first of all the thoughts you're having before you start talking...and you'll be well on your way. (smile)


(An aside, my computer isn't working right today, so sorry for all the white writing and boring look on all my entries today!!)

CIAO~~

Todd