cheating on your spouse? How Disgusting!!

I think it's ok now to put this back out there.....I'm not talking about someone specific here, so no stressa!!

I think that it's very important in life to be 100% (or more!) honest. Especially with your partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife, even with lovers. (lovers means that you're just having intimacy with them without any emotional tie)

Why do people cheat? If your needs aren't being met, why stay with the person??

Is this something that you discuss before it happens? (Don't you think that'd be a good idea?)

Why'd you marry them (if you're married) if you couldn't be faithful?

How do you think you're going to feel about yourself now that you've done it and have to live with it...and your partner/spouse/lover does too?

Do you think it's nice to do something for yourself that you know is going to damage another? (their self esteem, confidence, self respect ~~not to mention your own ~~ is probably out of wack if you're engaging in this behavior).

Is this something that your partner will forget over time?

Are you worth your partner forgetting it over time?

Don't you think you'd (or you would have) respected yourself more if you'd have spoken with them and tried to work out the problemo that you're having with them BEFORE YOU CHEATED on them???

I'm very disgusted by this.

I think you should do a years worth of charity work 10-20 hours/week (that you probably don't have!) to make up for this....and I'm just speaking about repairing your bad karma alone!

You know I once told my boss that if they ever cheated on their partner/spouse, that I wouldn't work there anymore and would leave. I can't believe I'm telling you this! (I won't tell you which boss it was....this part is confidential ;)